Wednesday, August 13, 2008

7 week ultrasound

Today my worst nightmare came true. There was no fetal pole, no yolk sac, and no heartbeat. Just an empty gestational sac. The pregnancy is over. It's called a missed miscarriage. I've had no bleeding or symptoms that things were going wrong. I go back on Monday to discuss the D&C.

17 comments:

Jenni said...

Oh my. I am sooo, sorry. I really am very sorry. No words can express how I know you are feeling. You are in my prayers.

Hollie said...

Oh, Kelly. My heart aches for you right now. You and your husband are in my prayers during this time. Your online friends are here if you need us. I will be thinking of you and praying for you.

Anonymous said...

If I could take away some of your pain and cry some of your tears for you, I would. My heart is breaking to hear this. May God be with you and comfort you and hold you right now. I am so, so sorry.

s.e. said...

NO. I know none of us can understand your exact situation but we do feel your pain. No one deserves this.

It will take your heart a while to grasp what happened. Know that we will be grieving with you. This is so heart-breaking.

Thinking of you and wishing you solace soon.

Kahla said...

Oh Kelly, I'm so, so sorry. My heart is breaking for you. This is not fair, I know all too well what you are feeling. I wish I knew what to say to make it better, but I know no words can take that pain away. I'm so sorry.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry. No sentiment can make you feel better but I hope you know that there are many people out here- some that you know and others that you have never met- that are praying for you.

Cathleen said...

Oh Kelly...I am so, so, sorry. My heart is just breaking for you guys. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs.

Victoria said...

Kelly-- I've been lurking and "stalking" your blog for a couple of months now. I've been sharing every moment of your pregnancy that you've blogged about. This is the first comment that I've left for anyone.


I can't even begin to express my sheer sorrow at what's happened. It's just not right. I hope that you will soon find the peace that you have been looking for.

Baby and Me said...

oh my gosh! I am so so sorry. I dont even know what to say. Take care of yourself and you will be in my prayers.

pumpkinseed said...

Kelly I'm so so sorry. I know there is nothing I can say that can make this hurt go away, just know that you and your dh are in my thoughts and hope you find comfort in each other.

Karen said...

I am so deeply sorry. I am just sick about it for you. Please take care of yourself.

Amber said...

I can't tell you how sorry I am. I have gone to that u/s expecting to see a 7 week old emby and found out I was going to m/c as well. I know what a horrible, horrible moment that is. Don't let your Dr. rush you into a D&C if you aren't sure. You can let it happen naturally. You don't have to go the D&C route unless there is a sold medical reason to do so. Thinking of you.

Julia said...

My heart sank when I pulled up your post. I've erased everything I typed so far. There's nothing I can say.

Just know you're both in my heart and thoughts.

TrainingtoTri said...

OMG! I am so sorry. I was just getting caught up on your blog. My heart goes out to you and you and your family will be in my prayers.

Chelle said...

OMG. I am in tears right now. I wish I had something comforting to say.

(HUGS)

chelle(at)centpave.com if you ever want to let it all out, I am here to listen.

Christina said...

My gosh - I am so sorry. I don't even know what to say other than this sucks.

Kristin (kekis) said...

Kelly, I am so sorry to hear your sad news. I know it's so devastating and disheartnening. There is nothing anyone can say or do to make it better, but know that you're in my thoughts and prayers.